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...e soon. The universities and other institutions that should study this are not going to do it - they know that they would risk having their funding yanked

...whose lives work out this way. What's wrong is that we've defined this as normal, which makes most of us abnormal.<br> ...e Lines, Dr. Chris Donaghue describes the holes in society's definition of normal, taking a sharp eye to institutions such as marriage, cheating, virginity,

...to be no talk of traumatic influences; rather the opposite was true. It is not the actions themselves, which are usually in the form of caressing or mastu

...in "all possible combinations" - including adults with juveniles - they do not have sex with unwilling partners.<br>

[Interviewer:] But in your books sexuality is not the focal point of any character. As in real life, it is just one trait of ...but it may take damaging years before anyone gives them permission to feel normal. End of rant...<br>

...We should use neutral, value-free terms like "adult-child sex." We should not talk about "the severity of the abuse," but instead refer to "the level of [[Category:(Not) normal]]

...ory physical 'signs' or evidence of biological causation. The criteria are not value-free, but rather reflect current normative social expectations.<br> ...omosexuality used to be considered a symptom of illness. The Society would not be able to support considering sexual differences as symptoms of illness.'<

.... Human societies up until recently have regarded the onset of puberty and not the end of puberty as the signal for sexual maturity. A hundred and fifty y <i>source: Article 'The biology of paedophilia, or why there might not be one' by Lynne Malcolm; www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/allinthemin

...ill act in secret, for reasons of "national security," and the people will not be permitted to know what goes on in their name.<br> ...as the chill of autumn feels normal when summer is gone. It will all seem normal.<br>

...in this heavenly innocence for a long time. Sexual feelings and drives are not innate, they are brought to them from the outside, from the evil world of a ...societies [where paedophilic contacts were normal], but were considered a normal part of daily life. There was no social stigmatization, and therefore no in

...t difference between them rests not on the dubious assumption that one is 'normal' and the other so perverse as to require special explanation, but on the <i ...youth organization, too often deny children these vital experiences. I do not contend that paedophiles should be recruited in large numbers to supply the

...committed or had attempted a sexually motivated homicide, 189 CMs, and 47 normal-controls were compared on demographic variables and phallometric responses. Results: HCMs, CMs, and controls were not significantly different on Age or IQ. CMs had significantly higher PI score

...and a half between her thirteenth and fifteenth birthdays. Perhaps that is normal for that age; she changed from a girl into a woman. That was very beautiful ...tep further, know better what they do or don't want. The responsibility is not so great.<br>

...old me: 'I was opposing calls for censorship generated by this book. I was not in any way condoning paedophilia.'<br> ...ble to condone paedophilia, it is time society acknowledged the truth that not all sex involving children is unwanted, abusive and harmful.'<br>

...ippery slope to pre-pubescent material". They were no longer interested in normal sexual relationships.<br>

* Most child porn users are 'normal' people who do not go on to actually offend against children but have deviant sexual fantasies ...uch in the same way the vast majority of those who fantasise about rape do not go on to commit/subject themselves to rape).

...iculty in regarding their attraction as biologically natural even if it is not socially and legally acceptable. This leaves only those GLs who are sexuall ...mpleman T.L. & Stinnett R.D., Patterns of sexual arousal and history in a "normal" sample of young men, Archives of Sexual Behavior, Volume 20, Issue 2, pp 1

...t are new drugs to hold back the years really the right answer?: [...] The normal age at which puberty starts in both boys and girls has dropped by about two ...e of puberty. These chemicals mimic the effect of hormones, disrupting the normal timing of sexual maturing. [...] In Britain, it is now estimated that up to

...y to go and run an Empire or, at least, take charge of lesser mortals with normal feelings. [...]<br> ...as then and this is now, that the abuses of the old boarding schools could not possibly happen today. I decided to go and see Ashdown [Ashdown House, a bo

...antasies of children, and 7% indicated they might have sex with a child if not caught (Briere & Runtz, 1989). Briere and Runtz remarked that "given the pr ...arousal to an adult (Hall, Hirschman, & Oliver, 1995). In another study, "normal" men's erections to pictures of pubescent and younger girls averaged 70 and

...ver, Gordon C Nagayama, Richard Hirschman) was conducted on a sample of 80 normal male volunteers using the "penile plethysmograph". The team carried out hun ...the results for part of the study were INVERTED by stating those that were not aroused. Was this in an effort to hide the nature of the findings? 95% is t

...al Arousal and Arousability to Pedophilic Stimuli in a Community Sample of Normal Men." Behavior Therapy, 1995, 26). That is a very large number of people. B ...efined as "children" but who are sexually mature. Hormones, after all, are not controlled by social definitions and norms. So depending on how we define "

...xamples of societies where consenting inter-generational sex is considered normal, beneficial and enjoyable by old and young alike.<br> The positive nature of some child-adult sexual relationships is not confines to non-Western cultures. Several pf my friends, gay and straight,

...child-protection bodies said under-16s who engage in consensual sex should not be criminalised. Norman Wells, the director of the Family Education Trust,

...ainst sodomy, which happened with a delay of two hundred years in the USA (not in 1791 as in France, but in 2003).<br> ...ting it would be to teach children and sex, or that love and eroticism are not only pleasure but also pain. The word perverse is out of fashion, but the p

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...view that the phrase 'minor-attracted people' is inappropriate and should not be utilized as a euphemism for behavior that is illegal, morally unacceptab ...g in ways that morally condemn only people who act on their attraction and not those who merely feel the attraction, can help us figure that out. [...]<br

...oes exist, but is rare. Most of the time the reactions of the children can not be judged. On some material it can be seen clearly that the children had fu ...clearly happy or if this could not be judged. 83 % of the reactions could not be judged clearly, 18 % of the pictures showed happy children, 1 % of the p

If a 15-year-old can be tried as an adult for robbery, it is not clear why that same 15-year-old is too immature to consent to sexual relati ...these outcomes are extremely rare. <i>Predator</i> also suggests violence, not seduction or consent. The previously mentioned television program, <i>To Ca

...to inhibit their sexual arousal. Thus, arousal to pedophilic stimuli does not necessarily correspond with pedophilic behavior.<br> ...al arousal and arousability to pedophilic stimuli in a community sample of normal men' by Gordon C. Nagayama Hall, Richard Hirschman & Lori L.Oliver; www.sci

...Homosexuals In Belgium Between 1960 And 1968'. I am a lesbian myself, but not a pedophile (but as a young child I did have sexual feelings towards adult ...exuals, lesbian and bisexual people, they were soon kept out of that. I do not know if you are informed about the existence of very good scientific litera

...l and I had sex with him. My friends and professors have told me that it's normal for a boy to be attracted to other children or adults. It happened to me. B

...t anyway, but the youth-worker was busy putting out the fire, maybe he did not hear Bartje by that?<br> ...et an insurance. We think it's a decent car alright. The youth-worker does not mind our making it dirty. There are ten chairs in the car, but twenty of us

...y being charged with felonies for ordinary, consensual and developmentally normal behaviors. [...]<br> ...that male sexual interest in teenage girls is normal or that research does not support that teens are always harmed by sexual experiences with an adult.<b

...my sexual desires. I am a recovering cocaine addict who wishes to lead a "normal" productive life. I strongly support NAMBLA and the beliefs that the associ ...e aware of our being observed but didn't care due to the fact that we were not doing anything (at times of observation) that were illegal.<br>

[[File:Riegel_Not_Abused.png|thumb|left|We were NOT abused!]]<br> Book as pdf-file: [[Media:2007_Riegel_Not_Abused.pdf|We were NOT abused!]]<br>

Our NAMBLA brothers once more have to take it from behind; not from adorable young chaps, but from insane witch hunters who are accusing t ...etting our own server. Any solution will require funds. Basic dues just do not cover the expenses we face.'<br>

...iewer:] Are you suggesting that having sexual feelings for little girls is normal?<br> ...ave the feeling doesn't mean I have to have the action. So this dilemma is not uncommon, and I also think that the present culture encourages men to have

...with the vilest of crimes, and how, against all the odds, they persevered not only to clear Jeremy's name, but to get the justice the couple so richly de

...jail sentence and/or fine. And in this case the depictions referred to are not just visual.<br> ...ed, and even material which advocated 'child sexual abuse' or treats it as normal. It has been pointed out that under these provisions the Nabokov's <i>Lolit

Translator's note: this is not fiction. It originally appeared as a column in a Belgian gay magazine, Roze ...y - not as a child, and not now. On the contrary: I have always had a very normal and healthy sex life, perhaps even because of that first experience."</i><b

...puberty rites among tribal Aborigines and some New Guineans. [...] We are not a tribal culture, and acient Greece ended before the coming of Christ. The

Sixteen-year-old Matthew Bandy was about as normal a teenager as you could find. He actually liked hanging out with his family ...wearing that? And I had no good answer for them." The shy young boy could not explain how such pictures appeared on his computer hard drive. The stress o

...mo sacer" status. The licence is determined in secret by the Parole Board, not by a judge in open court, and the conditions are often only tangentially re ...ip as to make one impossible for the other adult… leaving very little of a normal life. There is no appeal against such a licence. The "homo sacer" effect is

...hat effectively ends any chance you have of living a normal life. Yet, I’m not the monster you think me to be. I've never touched a child sexually in my l ...Virtuous Pedophiles, where they can get the coaching and support that was not available to us older pedos at their age. It'll make all the difference as

...y sexual play and had a bitter and complaining mother and a father who did not dance anymore... [...]<br> ...been beside us many times as we made love. Mommy and daddy having sex was normal behaviour for her... The trouble started when she went to school, an 'Anthr

...ientists to conduct research that would demonstrate the homosexuality was "normal. The Mattachine Society adopted a resolution disavowing "any direct, aggres ...parate and coexistent within an individual. Thus, Americans began to speak not just of feminine and masculine personalities but also of "androgynous" type

...he eroticism. Otherwise you must be a pedophile yourself. One doesn't find normal things erotic.<br> ...one when you wear a dress walking in the open, but in Staphorst, this will not be allowed I fear. In Amsterdam it does however generate the blind anger of

...is deemed unnatural even to have fantasies of that nature. Certainly it is not now the custom here, but it has been customary. The business of the child b ...in doing so now we may be in error; the sex tourism of the distant east is not part of our social culture, but to Indians, Sri Lankans, Thais and Filipino

...t they do, produce some fascinating data about PIE membership at least, if not the paedophile population at large. They find that PIE members are largely ...st. Here Wilson and Cox find a striking normality (page 57). The sample is not distinctly pathological as a group, the authors conclude, nor clinically ab

...him the rest of his life. "Even murderers can get out of prison and lead a normal life," she said. [...]<br> ...de later, Fewell wanted to know if she considered herself a victim, and if not, if she would be willing to help her group. The call from a stranger to a s

...w bear in mind: I'm not a pedophile. I really don't want to fuck children, not my style. Lesbians on <i>Youtube</i> will suffice. And also I don't think I ...to protect the rights of every human being since the time of birth. So I'm not just a child porn advocate, I'm a baby porn advocate. So I reiterate, when

...onsent in England was encouraged by concerns regarding child prostitution, not by concerns regarding paedophilia. [...]<br> ...o small children and 7% indicated that they might have sex with a child if not caught. In another sample involving 100 male and 180 female undergraduate s

...rchangably, as if they were synonyms. They seem to think that there are no normal, loving, caring people who are attracted to the beauty of little girls. Wel ...rts (read sex organs), then they become absolutely mad with outrage. It is not illegal to have pictures of dead children, aborted fetus's, or torture on y

...think sales stunts shouldn't be reserved for adult fools. All in all, it's not a bad plan to grant children more influence and recognition, in the wake of ...ly autobiographical book gives a broad outline of the author's life. It is not a cheerful book, but it gives a good insight into the difficult life of a m

...alized pederasty to argue that androphile gay relations in our society are normal and should be tolerated, while ignoring these same examples when considerin ...the boy away, but with "curiosity," in Tripp's perception, so the boy did not believe the rebuff and continued the sex act. He remembered that the man wa

...lt imply sexual abuse. Many sexual contacts between adults and children do not have to result in any damage, and there are also sexual contacts which are ...along we have listed ideas and opinions which are very common. If you are not able to discover where your difficulty lies, look at this list. This bookle

...t. This rather showed that men can be aroused by a young person. We should not categorize people too much. There is no clear distinction between pedophile ...ariant. It has gained some degree of acceptance but is still not seen as a normal phenomenon in many places. It is remarkable that people who are primarily h

...tracted to young girls and especially why I wish to touch young girls. I'm not the only one who is curious to know the answer to that question, but probab ...y body longed badly for sex and concentrating was often difficult if I was not sexually satisfied. My erotical feelings were much stronger and more chaoti

...an consent or not consent to sexual activities just as they can consent or not consent to eating liver. But what about that other problematic word: child? ...with the respect and rights that ought to be a part of citizenship. It was not irrational to think that this might be a fate worse than death. [...]<br>

...y in which social orthodoxy is perpetuated is by insisting that minorities not be taken seriously when they give witness to their own condition. Married m ...nt and pre-adolescent males. Although in today's Western culture, they are not encouraged to be procreative, many boys from a very early age are ready to

...hat makes it impossible for you to get offspring with your partner in the "normal" biological manner, then all gay and lesbian pedophilia, and all pedophilia ...nts of such voluntary relationships as given by the former minor that were not considered (intrinsically) harmful by him or her.<br>

...aspect of silencing an individual is to convince them that they had better not vent their opinion, whether it be a political opinion (communist in the USA ...system of 'beliefs'; the 'truths' that are valid in a culture. Often it's not so easy to distinguish between these various mechanisms, as they partly mix

...h is pedophilia, albeit under certain conditions. Gunter Schmidt says that not all pedophiles are per se unscrupulous molesters; instead pedophiles have a ...g a war may be legally correct, - IMHO it is morally incorrect - but it is not a medical illness. Smoking hash or drinking alcohol before a certain age ma

...n't up to us; applying the law of the jungle, we find that it's up to the 'normal' part of humanity. The 'pedophile' has been treated to a poisonous injectio ...x-year-old isn't approved of even when you're merely fourteen, but I might not have kicked up a din if I'd avoided the word pedophilia. We say pedophilia,

...ge ten through 15, Dr. Joseph Winchester offers evidence that children are not only sexual, but eager to be sexually active. Despite conclusive documentat ...f the boys whose biographies comprise this book have developed into fully "normal" adults. [...]<br>

...ll it 'normal': a boy and a girl with five years between them - but I must not add then that the girl was a scamp with short blond hair and that especiall ...& Jeroen - these most charming twins from the first form - and that we did not get round hard to teaching material.<br>

...vary just as much as everybody else's opinions. Therefore our society does not have an "official" standpoint as such. If I take your question about what i ...ch as intercourse, oral or anal sex etc.), not when he/she is simply nude, not even when it is "posed". Of course when you would have asked the same quest

...ion. By the way, please pronounce "Mackay" to rhyme with "cry." That's the normal Scottish pronunciation, and Mackay also insisted on it.<br> It is not a love story at all. Rather, it shows the conflict of an individual with th

...drawn to children that much, life must be terrible. He or she is a victim, not an offender." Next, Mulder criticizes the mixing up of the terms 'pedophile ...ly done anything but play doctors and nurses (or 'play gynecologists') did not deserve to be treated as criminals.<br>

...means by folk who are bent on money and do not even spare the children, is not capable anyhow to encroach noticeably upon the life strength of an otherwis ...inations, but this needs to be done very tactfully, so that these men will not be hurt. By the way, the same Confucius put friendship above love of marria

...r once and maybe Peter with John for once. This sort of examples just does not occur during common lessons. The French lesson also starts with "Papa fume ...s, as far as that is concerned, we need to take very good care that we are not on the way back and that we all need to be watchful. I also mean, but undou

...name. It's an idea, a brand, that everyone should feel free to use. You're not interviewing Mark or the Child Liberation Front. You're interviewing the pe ...my place, and I know you are struggling with coming out into the public or not? You once did a TV interview. In this interview you were made partly unreco

* [[Pope's child porn 'normal' claim sparks outrage among victims]] - (Belfast Telegraph, 21 December 201 * [[Mum says 'sex toys' not child's play]] - Text by Stacey Kirk (stuff.co.nz, 3 November 2010)

However, eyes, ears and the nose are not the only human sensors. Additionally, there are the two body sensor systems ...this attraction (or preference) does not imply an action. It is certainly not an extreme urge against which resistance is impossible. The term pedophilia

It's difficult to explain to you who I am, when I'm not quite sure of that myself. In some respects I am an empowered individual; I ...t have a personal stake in the issue, would I ever have sought truth? It's not going to be possible in this blog to give you a full overview of my life. I

then it is not a game anymore,<br> ...ere too obtrusive. There was a taboo on sexual acts with children who were not sexually mature yet.<br>

...to have good arguments too to forbid something. Yet everything which does not fit in the picture of the being harmful for minors, is ignored. Probably, t ...at a point where people take children's wishes more and more into account. Not until some time ago, children just had to obey their parents and other grow

...may also be printed as a handout for distribution where appropriate. It is not carved in stone; comments and suggestions are welcome. ...f North American social and legal practices. We believe that these laws do not adequately protect the rights of young people. They have often been applied

...consequences of sex with children. The atmosphere taken into account, it's not so difficult to imagine that the results of these studies were fixed. In ad ...e busy explaining their very technical study with the help of slides (that not everybody understood equally well). Yet the professionally interested appea

...s. I recommend that people who follow Christ but decry enforced asceticism not call themselves "Christians" - see also my discussion of sexual terminology ...thological effects, since the human body is not evolutionarily adapted, or not sufficiently adapted, to the healthy processing of agricultural products su

...were involved with in the past and which occurred rather frequently. It is not for nothing that the expression "sex, drugs and rock 'n roll" applies for a ...nce team, is that if Jonathan is found guilty, the judge will sentence him not only for the acts themselves, but also for the quantity of emotional scarri

...suddenly see them as monsters beyond redemption. They are a class defined not by specific crimes (though they are accused of many offenses) but by their ...f people who are the sickest of the sick. They are truly perverts and it's not curable. Instead of civil detention, we ought to make sure...these pedophil

...children. It's free of any association with certain comprehensions and is not accompanied by erotic fantasies. This happens later. For the small child ma ...ry difficult time. During the occupation of our country, the students were not exactly popular with the Nazis. Eventually, universities had to close their

...so oblivious as to ignore the brutish agenda behind the attire. Not then, not now. ...ont or the cheeks in back. Full and frank display. Startling now, yes, but not back then. Young males were expected to look that way, just a natural aspec

...tedness of all communities and states. I cannot sit idly by in Atlanta and not be concerned about what happens in Birmingham. Injustice anywhere is a thre ...uperficial kind of social analysis that deals merely with effects and does not grapple with underlying causes. It is unfortunate that demonstrations are t

...tressful experience. However, it would have been much more frustrating, if not impossible, without the help of the following individuals who took time out ...laws. In addition, youth who would be most affected by new legislation are not being consulted or asked for their opinions. It is for these reasons that t

...al en afwijkend seksueel gedrag - Oorspronkelijke titel: Sexual beheviour, normal and abnormal - Vertaling J.J.G. Muller-van Santen - Alpha-boek - Alpha-boek CLogo team - CLogo Pamphlet: Pedophiles - Year (not in pamphlet): 2003 [001] [002]<br>